Asshole of the Week Award

In the “damnit, why did I let D.L. Hughley beat me to this shit” category, we have Damon Wayons.

Damon Wayans riled up the ladies on The View Wednesday morning by saying he had no issue with Don Imus for using the phrase “nappy-headed ho’s” and suggesting women should get back to fulfilling men’s “basic needs” – like cooking for them.

“Freedom of speech, what happened to that? What happened to expressing yourself?” Wayans, 47, said in reference to Imus, the shock jock who was fired in April for making derogatory remarks about the Rutgers women’s basketball team (and was recently hired by a rival radio station).

Wayans added: “At least I know where he stands. And you know what? When he called them nappy-headed ho’s, I went, ‘Wow, he’s right!’ ”

That got the co-hosts and the audience shouting over each other, but Wayans said a person’s reaction to a statement like that all depends on his or her perspective. “Black people at home are laughing right now,” he said. “White people are going, ‘That’s not right!’ It’s all cultural.”

Moving on to another contentious issue, Wayans said fewer women tend to men’s “basic needs” these days.

“Women today, most women I run into, don’t want to do the fundamentals,” he said. “They don’t cook. … I make the money so she can make something to cook.”

Amid the ensuing cacophony, Joy Behar managed to ask: “What if she makes as much money, though, and she says, ‘You do the cooking’?”

Wayans replied: “Then we can talk. But I haven’t met her. Beyoncé is taken.”

“Freedom of speech, what happened to that?”

What happened to freedom of speech? Nothing. That’s why when you exercise your freedom to express stupid shit, I am free to call you out for saying stupid shit.

“When he called them nappy headed ho’s, I went, ‘wow, he’s right!’ “

Allow me to use my freedom of speech to say, “you just said some stupid shit.”

“but Wayans said a person’s reaction to a statement like that all depends on his or her perspective. “Black people at home are laughing right now,” he said. “White people are going, ‘That’s not right!’ It’s all cultural.”

Interesting, because I’m black and I’m not laughing at all, especially when you say remarkably stupid shit like this:

“Women today, most women I run into, don’t want to do the fundamentals,” he said. “They don’t cook. … I make the money so she can make something to cook.”

Let me reiterate: you just said some stupid shit.

[tip o' the fedora to Blackfolks]

Enough Please with the Free Speech Nonsense

This is a repost from the old blog, originally posted 14 April 2007. I’ll be doing this from time to time. One thing I will add to this post is that there is a huge difference between someone exercising control over something that they own and someone trying to exercise control over something that was never theirs to begin with. As for the latter, I condemn it in all of it’s forms.

Every single time, without fail, when someone calls someone else out on their racist, misogynistic, homophobic or otherwise hateful and disrespectful speech or imagery, the free speech card gets played. It’s tired. So tired. The most recent examples of this nonsense that I’ve seen can be found at Feministe and at Fetch Me My Axe. What boggles the mind is that these people apparently have no idea what the concept of free speech in the U.S., as guaranteed by the First Amendment, actually means.

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

I won’t go into all of the history of Supreme Court cases concerning the First Amendment, but it should be noted that the courts now understand the First Amendment to not only apply to Congress, but to the entire Federal government and the States as well.

One thing should be clear from the get-go: The First Amendment applies to the government and not to private organizations and individuals. Let’s look at this a tad more closely.

Y’see, the government can’t tell the New York Times what they can and cannot print; however, the New York Times can tell it’s writers what they will and will not print. The First Amendment does not apply to private organizations or individuals. In blogger terms, when your comment gets deleted from a blog, your Constitutional rights have not been denied. You are free to go somewhere else (like your own blog) and say whatever the hell you want. You can say that you’ve been censored (and in the case of bloggers I’d still say you’re wrong), but your freedom of speech rights have not been violated. Look at it this way. You’re free to piss on a rug in your own house all you want; or if someone else doesn’t mind you pissing on their rug, by all means, go for it; but if I don’t want you pissing on my rug in my house, I don’t have to let you do it and I’m not oppressing you by kicking you the hell out of my house.¹

And when someone calls you out for hateful speech, they are not acting as thought police. To make such an argument is disingenuous nonsense. The only way one can effectively be a member of any thought police is to have the power of the state behind you. Even when the President condemns what you’ve said or written, there is nothing there other than the condemnation (perhaps a more powerful condemnation since it’s coming from a person with a lot of power, but still only a condemnation).

So let’s just make this as clear as possible. You are not free to say whatever you want wherever you want. Individuals have every right to control the discourse that occurs within their own spaces. You also have the right to find an appropriate space to say whatever you want. If someone says something that I find offensive, I have every right to call them on it (and said person also has every right to prevent me from saying so in their space); and I’m not oppressing you by keeping your bullshit off of my blog, nor am I oppressing you by pointing out that you’re a sexist, racist asshole.

1. That’s probably a bad analogy since I’m pretty sure if you try to piss on a rug in the White House you’ll get kicked out too, but you get my drift I hope. [↩]